Do you know what became of your first love/ex?...........

[swiperfox]

......Did you have a lucky escape or has someone else got the love of your life??

I sent my ex a text this afternoon just to see what he was up to etc.

His eldest daughter was 19 last month. His next daughter is 17 next week. His next daughter, from a girl he met when we were just about over, is 4 on Sunday and his next daughter, from another girl, is 1 next month.

His Granddaughter is almost 2. - making his Grandaughter a year older than his youngest daughter!!!!!

And he's only 38!!!!!! Think it's safe to say i had a lucky escape lol

mine came out of the closet which led to our parting now in australia, alone and bitter coz i left him!!!!!!

My first bf at school is in jail for robbery and gbh

hello sarah

hi lou how are you?

i don't know

mine stalked me through friendsreunited and sent a nauseating email not mentioning partner or kids but signing off saying he had to go as his cat was in the bath drinking out of the tap

Lucky escape I call it

1: No. had a breakdown and got into some religious cult. Would love to know.

2: Yes. Still keeps in touch with me, although last 'phone call I had he said he was spending a year in Florence - and I haven't heard from him since. Must be coming up to a year already.

3: No. Broke my heart, but he married someone he was shagging while he was still living with me, so good luck to him . Occasionally bump into his mum in Sainsbury's/Garden centre. He's going grey apparently and about to remarry.

4: Yes. Occasionally bump into him in Oxford. He's got 2 children now, is fat, poor thing has psoriasis (sp?) and has smelly hair, as he demonstrates when he bends down to kiss when we bump into one another. Another funny thing with him is that whenever I meet his Czech mum, who always hated me while we were going out together, says 'Carla, I steeeel reeeely theeenk one day you willllll be back together. You weeeeel be married one day'!!!!

my ex is now a police officer

am good thanks, how aer you and phuket?

OH!!!i had to reply to this one...i was in LOVE with a boy when i was 16 and he was 18...he asked me to marry him when he returned from boot camp...and i said i would if he asked me when he returned...he DUMPED ME a week later for another girl...which he ended up married to with two children...he didn't even really want to marry the girl...(long story) anyway...she knew i was with him..anyway..after they were married (before children) we met up..at his mom's....and you can use your imagination..he is still as sexy as ever to me...but after doing what he did with me...i'm glad she has him and i don't...the person i was in love with was honest, he even told the truth about the girl, loving and very kind...he changed alot...i still talk with his mom, and she tells me all the time about how she wished i would have gone to the wedding so they wouldn't have got married, and all that jazz,,,,,,funny think though because when we were together she didn't like me..LOL i am 28 now and my whole family knows how strong the feelings were on my part...he was the man of my dreams...but became someone else's nightmare...

one more love!!!!!!!he came down to LA for just a while....he was big...tall...SEXY SEXY SEXY...now he is gone somewhere in the NEW ENGLAND states...he became a married man..i cried when i heard, ..he had asked me to go with him...but i had child and didn't think i knew him well enough to put the welfare of my baby in him hands so i said good-bye...just thinking of him makes me tear up...he was a true friend...i don't think he had children last i heard, but he always kept his niece's pics up...soo he prob...will be a great dad...ooooohhh i miss him...i have spoken to him a few times since he left...but been atleast 2 years since the last time...he was wonderful...and the best thing about him was we only had sex one time in 5 months our relationship was slow and nice...absolutely perfect...till he had to leave...

my first love was my ex. I have never slept with anyone else. We were together for nearly ten years with two kids. Can't imagine being with any one else (not that I want the twat back mind

I see mine at least once a week.

He works at Tesco's!

He married the woman after me and they have three kids. Definitely a lucky escape (nothing particularly wrong with him, but the two of us married would have been a HUGE mistake -- so a lucky escape for both of us).

SenoraPostrophe - we must know each other - mine married Amanda de Cadenet

Mine became famous...he was a spokesman during a major national crisis a few years ago and appeared on the news every night.

i got married to my first love!!!!!!!!!!!!

so yes i know what happened to my fist love!!

Never really lost touch with mine - known him 22 years now though we were only together for a few months! He's happily married with lovely family. We email.

I'd bloody love to know where my ex is cos he b*ggered off leaving me up to my eyes in joint debts I've struggled to pay off!!

Working in Texas with wife and 5 year old son

Never fancied Texas.

Head chef in a fancy fish restaurant, the same one he worked in when we were 16. So he still stinks of fish all the time and can never have night out apart from Mondays .

He married the girl who used to have really bad acne and they have two kids. He was a good sort and his father used to beat him at least twice a week (alchoholic) and broke his arm and his nose while I was going out with him so I am glad things worked out for him in the end.

Mine turned out to be Gay. I had a vivid dream about him last year. I googled his name ( very unusual ) and found him. I sent him an email and got a lovely reply, am looking forward to seeing him when I am next in that part of the world.

i married mine too. and had his babies

MINE MARRIED THE GIRL HE WAS SEEING BEHIND MY BACK AND GOT DIVORCED LAST YEAR!!!
WHATS THE SAYING.....WHAT GOES AROUND........
I MEANWHILE AM HAPPILY MARRIED WITH DD!!!