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Are you a wife or a mother first? I'm finding it difficult to be all things to everybody!!

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domesticallychallenged · 13/05/2009 10:12

DH and I are having issues it's fair to say! He told me last night that he feels I am so into being a mum I am neglecting him.

We do get on but having 3 children (the youngest is only 3 months old), nights of passion are at the bottom of my list as I am exhausted when I go to bed. I know he wants more sex but when we do have sex it's like the flood gates open and he wants it ALL the time!

And as I am finding it difficult to be a wife AND a mother I am wondering where on earth I can find time for me too! If I ever get a couple of hours when the children are asleep and I might have a chance to read a book or have a peaceful bath he makes me feel so guilty by not running upstairs and jumping on him in my finest lingerie!

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halia · 14/05/2009 09:15

thats the problem, i'm 'finished' if you know what i mean after 15-45 mins and I just want to go to sleep! and belive me there's nothign less sexy than having someone trying to 'work you up again' when you are post O, sleepy and a bit sore.

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