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[Tiredmumno1]

Hi all, just wanted ur thoughts, my partner and i have been together 7 yrs and have 2 young so sons, he seems to think it is ok to ogle woman constantly, from the mums at the school, to the females walking down the road, the ones in the shops, and it doesnt just stop there, he is always on the look even whilst watching tv and newspapers and magazines. I hate it. What do you all think.

He usually likes to inform me of the fact which ones would be worth shagging, and this is nearly every female he passes. And being asked to have 3some ffm, for something different sexually for us to enjoy. I didnt know whether to laugh or cry, i have only put up with it cos i love him for his personality not his flaws and for the sake of our boys. I know he hasnt cheated

oh tiredmum - that isnt nice. I would not like that at all. My oh does occasionally look at other women - i dont think they can help themselves but i would be horrified if he pointed that out.

That is awful Tiredmum, really disrespectful and not just a case of checking other women out.
Have you told him how you feel about his behaviour?

Yeah he knows how i feel, he just laughs it off saying he is just looking not touching, and that he reckons all blokes r the same. So i think he feels that is a good enough reason

Sorry to hear this Tiredmumof1. There's nothing wrong with looking (everyone does it I think) but that behaviour is downright cruel and disrespectful.

He knows how you feel and he laughs it off. That's plain wrong.

All blokes are NOT like that.

Not all blokes are like that! I've no doubt that DH ogles or watches women, (even though he says he doesn't) but he has enough respect for me to not do it when I'm with him. Overtly ogling I mean. It's just not nice behaviour tbh.