im so upset i cant type for tears. my husband quit his job. said he is fed up with it. i have to agree that his job is crap but its well paid & hes quit without having another one to go to and we are heavily in debt. we moved in with his parents 6 months ago, swopped our new car for a crappy old one and rented out our house. all this so we could pay off our bills. the house still isnt let, i havent found a job and now hes decided hes had enough and wants to retrain.
sometimes i think he did the right thing but other times i get so upset at his stupidity. he hasnt been accepted onto a course yet and has no money for fees. he defaulted on his student loan from the last time he decided this 3 years ago.
we have 4 kids under 8 and i feel so depressed. ive worked hard to make a better life for them and now i wonder why i bothered when its amounted to nothing but debts.
i feel so stuck and helpless. i hate living with my inlaws, the kids school is crap and i feel like im the only one making the effort to get us out of this situation. he has a ccj so we would find it hard to rent and have no money for a deposit anyway. he wants me to go back to work and be the main earner.
i feel like leaving him as im really starting to hate him but we are from a strong christian family and would never hear the end of it. hes so moody, selfish and immature. im tired of waiting for him to grow up.