me and dh have fallen out - help!

[chocolatefudgebrownie]

My dh and I had a bit of a falling out last night. I couldn't get out of him what I had said. He said that I should know what I said that had upset him. I honestly do not know, and listed a few things, but he said 'no' to every one I said.

He wouldn't speak to me this morning. Then when I went in the bathroom, he left for work without saying goodbye and kissing me or the dc's. Which has never happened before

I sent a text after he left to ask what is wrong and I haven't got a reply. Obviously, I am really worried at what I have done. If he won't tell me, I don't know how to solve it. Tis all a mess

Glad he has decided to talk. Did he say what triggered it?

Am also glad you think he wouldn't take the children but bear in mind that in most cases where the children have been taken, the wife also felt that her DH wouldn't do that. So please bear it mind.

Hide the passports. I am not joking.

I am middle eastern and trust me, never say never is true. In the middle east whether you are christian or muslim the children belong to the father. So morally his family would support him.
Why is he telling a 3 year old this if not some how preparing him?

Glad I am not the only one that feels like this Bree and skinnygirl. It was the first thing I thought of when chocolate said that her DS mentioned the Middle East.

Please please please move their passports. If you cant give them to a friend or relative put them somewhere really random, an old toiletrie bag? Shoe box? Old coat pocket?

It will do no harm, and may save a lot of heart ache.

I agree with the others, please do not make assumptions. Better to be safe then sorry so please hide the passports.
Anyway did he say why he was so mad at you?

Also don't mention what your ds said. Always be one step ahead. If he knows you have any suspicions about him taking your ds he'll be ultra careful hiding things from you.

chocolatefudgebrownie, so what was it all about then? Been wondering how you got on.