Hi there,
I really, really need some advice here please about the relationship with my boyfriend of 6 months, but mainly with his Mum, who I now can't stand. What started this all off was two nights ago when I was in the pub having a few drinks with some friends. Time was going on and we were having a great time...then suddenly I have this bowel movement, and the next thing I know, I'm weeing and pooing myself. Just as this is happening, in come my bf's Mum (who I know HATE) and Dad: they just give over a look of disgust as they get their drinks and go and sit down. I meanwhile hobble over to the loo to get my dirty knickers off and flush them down the toilet. Then I tell my friends 'Ok girls, we've got to leave NOW' so we do and I walk home knickerless and fully ashamed of myself. Then to make things EVEN worse than they already were last night, today when I go round my bf's house for lunch I go through to the sitting room when his Mum shouts 'Chloe', so I go to the kitchen where is preparing lunch. Then she starts saying 'I think we need to have a talk young lady!' I say: 'Look, I'm really sorry...'And then before I can finish she starts dictating to me: 'If you want me to tell you the truth, in my mind your behaviour the other night is unforgiveable. My son deserves better than a girl who 'can't help' pooing her knickers - pooing your knickers, I mean how old ARE you Chloe? 5? Even (my bf's little sister) wouldn't do that, it just shows me what an immature little girl you really are. Oh and before I go any further, I seriously hope you threw them away afterwards, we don't want Dan (my bf) knowing about your little accident do we? Oh, and one last thing, you're washing your own knickers from now on, because I certainly won't be doing them for you. Now get out of my house." She blurted all this out in about a minute or so before she gave me a chance to explain and I felt like telling her to shut the hell up...I'm sure she's done something really embarrassing in her life and no one has treated her like this...to make it worse, my bf's little sister started chanting 'pooey knickers' on my way out and I started to cry ...This evening I spoke to my bf on the phone in tears telling him what happened and he said he'd speak to his Mum about it, although he did reassure me she'd get over it, although I'm not sure...I just don't know what to do or whether his parents will let me back over there again soon I just have know no idea who the hell his Mum thinks she is? God? The woman has really pissed me off and now I feel seriously guilty for what I've done, and even though my bf is really understanding, his Mum dominates in that house the WHOLE time, but up until today I kind of got on with it without worrying, but this is just the last straw...I am not going to give up though because of a stupid woman who doesn't know her stinks. Help me please, because I am really upset right now. Chloe x