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linux is wrecking my marriage

58 replies

MinaLoy · 05/11/2008 15:31

Did anyone ever get a divorce over Linux? I am so angry I just want to weep, no energy to scream any more. my F husband keeps changing the F operating system and I have just spent 3 hours trying to get onto the internet because the F FIREWALL (SCREEEEEAM!) has interfered with the browser settings or some such crap. Please, if there are any Linux WAGS out there, also tearing out their hair/their partners hair/weeping with impotent rage............come here and cheer me up.

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SylvieSprings · 05/11/2008 15:49

Sorry. I'm using a Mac. It's brilliant! Very user-friendly. Perhaps it's time you consider getting your own computer. May I suggest a link to the website?

BlazingBarrels · 05/11/2008 16:11

Ah, I'm married to one too. I used to be quite capable of finding my way around a computer, making my own backups, printing, installing software... then I married a Geek who has made everything so fxxxing complicated that I now feel like a simpering idiot-wife who needs her man to do everything technical for her.

We are using Ubuntu. It crashes and locks me out about once a week. But the thing that drives me completely barmy is just how many bloody cables there are in this house. Can I ever find the one I need? Can I fxxx!

Rant over.

Pawslikepaddington · 05/11/2008 16:13

Mac mac mac mac, mac mac mac mac, dad wants to get me a tiny laptop with linux on for xmas tho-am scared of linux

MinaLoy · 05/11/2008 17:03

O BlazingBarrels that has warmed my heart. It does infantalize us doesn't it? Needing to ask for help all the time...I do understand and even love the philosophy of Linux, I just wish it would WORK!

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MinaLoy · 05/11/2008 17:03

And Paws, you SHOULD be scared. Very scared.

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NotQuiteCockney · 05/11/2008 17:07

The tiny laptop is nice, and you don't need to do any linux stuff to use it. You do need fairly tiny fingers, though, the keyb is weeny.

Pawslikepaddington · 05/11/2008 17:22

Will get dd to do my typing-will teach her her letters at least . I love my mac so much, but dad thinks a tiny one will be more use out and about as Mr Mac is delicious and SO clever but a tad heavy at times! And the little ones are SO cute! I feel for you poor ladies xx

Cosette · 05/11/2008 17:33

Oh I use Ubuntu and it's fab - haven't had any problems with it at all. sorry I know that doesn't help, and now that I've said that it will lock me out too .

MinaLoy · 05/11/2008 17:34

You know what's sad? I have the teeny tiny gorgeous laptop (Acus Eeeee is its name) and. it. has. linux. on. it. Ah, the best and worst of worlds....

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Flamesparrow · 05/11/2008 17:35

Soooooooooo pleased DH only f*cks up his own with his ubuntu love affair

MinaLoy · 05/11/2008 17:54

So Flamesparrow, does your man have disasters with ubuntu? Because I have very disloyally been thinking maybe linux is fine, it's just my wishes-he-was-cleverer-than-he-really-is husband who can't quite work ubuntu. So it would quite hearten me to hear that others battle with it too

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MinaLoy · 05/11/2008 17:57

Cosette I do hate Windows...some days I just hat Linux more. Today I'm in a hating mood. Which makes me feel very shallow since it's a happy day for the world, Obama-wise. Wonder if he's a Linux man?

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EachPeachPearMum · 05/11/2008 17:58

Hmmm... sorry, but methinks your DH's do not actually know enough about linux... sorry.
DH uses it all the time, we have no problems.
He has been coding for 20 years though....

Tidgypuds · 05/11/2008 18:02

Ok first question I want to ask is, what is Linux?
Second question my ExH keeps boasting about his Mac?! I think im meant to be impressed but I dont know what it is, would someone like to enlighten me on its wonderfulness...how is it better than a laptop?

Sorry if these are really dumb questions.

Flamesparrow · 05/11/2008 18:02

Nah, we're ok now. It was the teaching himself to install it etc in the early days that we had the issues He loves it now.

I like it for the screen spinning trick, but am perfectly happy with windows

warthog · 05/11/2008 18:18

one word you need to know:
MAC

get him to buy you one NOW

sleepyeyes · 05/11/2008 18:56

Another MAC lover. So easy to use and virus free.
We also have laptops with windows and linux, I never got the hang of linux and windows is so slow and boring compared to mac.

MrsFlittersnoop · 05/11/2008 21:30

Oh PLEASE can I join in??

DH is a self-employed software developer. Nice work if you can get it, but the boundaries between domestic and corporate life are very blurred in my front room

Younger Brother arrived from Oz last week. He's never seen our current home before, and was fascinated the mileage of cableage ("Cableness"?, "Cababilityness"? - insert correct adjective here ) snaking across our floorspace.

Walking across the living room is fraught with danger. There are huge rats nests of Heath Robinson-style 10-way adapters everywhere, connecting the PC, two lap-tops,TV, DVD, X-Box, routers,speakers etc ad infinitum, to our woefully indaequate power points. Attempts to hoover are met with cries of "Don't touch/move/unplug that! I'm downloading something important!"

I have at least six tasteful IKEA wicker boxes full of anonymous/unclaimed leads, chargers, motherboards and other widgets taking up vital chic-lit improving book- space on my shelves. This doesn't include the stuff on top of wardrobes and in the attic and garage.

At least the LINUX monster is banished to an old PC in the spare room. Trust me, NO-ONE is comfortable using LINUX unless they are IT professionals. And even then,it helps if you are a 45 yr old male with no RL mates and still live at home.

What I want to know is, if LINUX is so frigging amazing, how come we aren't all using it? It's bad enough coping with newly-installed Windows Vista - which won't let me revise my documents if DS is logged on playing "Warrior Ninja Orcs of Pthooui: The Final Hobgoblin".

DH is threatening to get a MAC soon for a new project. The only space left for new hardware is the loo. Which houses my valuable collection of old Private Eye magazines.

Is there a Cyber-Widows Support Thread on Musmnet?

StealthPolarBANG · 05/11/2008 21:34

lol at I hat linux
it's secure where windows isn't
it's also a pain in the bum to use and I hat it too

Reallytired · 05/11/2008 21:39

I sugggest that you buy another PC. They have come down a lot in price and its cheaper than getting a divorce. My husband is not allowed on my PC and I don't touch his.

Our house has 5 PCs and 3 people. I would also recommend either VM ware or the Linux equivalent and then you play around with different operating systems without trashing the one you use.

PigeonPie · 05/11/2008 21:44

I agree - Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac Mac - especially as I've got DH's cast-off. However, he reinstalled it a couple of days ago and forgot to add the printer. Because I don't know the IP address of the sodding printer I couldn't print out a poster for playgroup today and had to wait for him to come home to do it. I was thinking as he was fiddling with it that I wouldn't know what to do with all the IT stuff we have if he left!

EachPeachPearMum · 05/11/2008 21:57

Mrsflittersnoop- are you me?????
We just bought a macbook, officially to replace my laptop that died but DH wants to develop for the i-phone
The only room without hardware is bathroom and dd's room keeps us warm though!

MinaLoy · 05/11/2008 22:16

Mrs Flittersnoop I am laughing through my headache...(headache brought on by screeeeeaming at Mr Linux as soon as he got home)..O god, all the cables! I always feel like such a wanker trying to house the cables in an aesthetically pleasing way .Actually I'm quite pleased with the current arrangement, which is a painted window-box - long, narrow, shallow - on a bookshelf. Only...it's already overflowing.

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JodieO · 05/11/2008 22:19

I use Firefox got browsing, it's very good.

JodieO · 05/11/2008 22:19

Got=for, no idea where that came from lol.

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