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Has anyone ever though of sleeping with another women?

443 replies

sep1712 · 07/10/2008 17:39

Am i the only person that would truely admit to thinking about sleeping with another women?
I'm happly married to a great man, that can keep me happy in every way but would love to try a women if only once before i die!
Do you think i'm strange?

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sep1712 · 09/10/2008 12:15

Thanks for your suppourt on the other thread quicky.
I havn 't asked as i havn't got the balls lol.

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quicky · 09/10/2008 12:18

Just gets to me that people are quick to start complaining about threads with titles that clearly set the tone of the thread - if they don't like it don't read it!!

Like I said, I'm not just a mum, I'm a woman too and I just happen to be curious about experiencing new things - maybe I just hate to think I'm missing out on something

LostHorizon · 09/10/2008 12:25

A mate of mine who's getting divorced treated himself to an escort after 20 years of monogamy. She told him that although she was hetero, she was quite happy to service women in the line of duty, because they're more attractive than the men.

So if it floats your boat, IMD, I'm sure you'll find one who'll play. Sleeping with such well-known disease vectors as escorts, just to try it out with another woman, seems like inviting curiosity to kill the cat though.

Incidentally, I love the way the conversation got a lot filthier after about 8pm last night, when the kids were in bed, the wine had been opened and the booze was taking effect. You laydeeez, really!

As Nom de Plume puts it - faced with a wet and willing real life woman, you'd all run away!

quicky · 09/10/2008 12:29

I don't think that all of us would run a mile if faced with it Life is too short to regret not having tried something that you think you might enjoy

ButWhyMum · 09/10/2008 12:39

Def not all of us...

I can't stop thinking about this now

sep1712 · 09/10/2008 12:41

After few of the above mentioned wines i really think i'd try it. Sober, not if i'd have the nerve!
Lost, what does you wife think to this thread?

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sep1712 · 09/10/2008 12:42

Me either butwhymum

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brookeslay · 09/10/2008 12:44

Hi all,

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quicky · 09/10/2008 12:45

I can't stop thinking about it now either butwhymum

sep1712 · 09/10/2008 12:46

Your going to be busy brookeslay!!!

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sep1712 · 09/10/2008 12:47

Quicky, do you think your going to do anything about it? ie start searching?

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quicky · 09/10/2008 12:50

Sep - I don't think I'll go searching but if the chance arose then I wouldn't back away from it. It is something I've thought alot about over the last few years

Overmydeadbody · 09/10/2008 12:52

LostHorizon I didn't run away, and would defo do it again.

If anyone's interested, gumtree can be a good place to put an advert specifying what you want, or to search for others.

Jazzicatz · 09/10/2008 12:53

I wish I could say that it was down to the wine but I was actually working last night. I would say though that I would not go through an agency or 'service' to meet someone it would have to be someone I knew and felt comfortable with - but not soemone that it wouls have a negative effect upon our friendship!

quicky · 09/10/2008 12:55

Same here Jazzicatz - I didn't touch a drop last night! I don't think I could go through a service either - I would be thinking that there wasn't a geniune attraction there and thats what would make it

QuintessenceOfFrankenShadow · 09/10/2008 12:56

Look girls,
If you are really seriuos about this, google the pink paper. google gay london and you will find links to gay and lesbian venues in london. I dont know where you are but your region should have similar.

It is not difficult to be chatted up, or indeed be invited to a woman only sauna evening, or the like. It is a lot easier than to just jump/fondle an unsuspecting woman you come across in a bar, for sure. I recently had my boob grabbed by a bicurious woman at a party. I gently removed her hand and said "no" like she was a naughty little child. (It was inside my bra) You need to find people who would welcome the attention.

You either try it or supress it and dont think about it. You wont actually have to go the entire mile. The first snog will most likely give you an indicatin if you want to go further or not.

Sorry about my repressed responses to this thread last night.

ButWhyMum · 09/10/2008 12:57

I'm with you Jazzi, i couldn't do anything with a friend or pay for it

It would have to be a stranger or someone i vaguely knew.

Overmydeadbody · 09/10/2008 12:57

Quint is right.

quicky · 09/10/2008 13:00

I don't think any of us would just jump the first woman we found hot without aleast having an idea that they felt the same - well I know I wouldn't.

I've just never found myself in the right situation to explore this as more than a fantasy and being a more "hands on" girl I suppose i want to know what the fantasy would be like for real BUT only with someone that i knew would be in full agreement!

quicky · 09/10/2008 13:02

Agree Butwhymum - could not be someone that I'm good friends with or have known for a long time

ButWhyMum · 09/10/2008 13:02

Agreed quicky, the rejection would be awful!

QuintessenceOfFrankenShadow · 09/10/2008 13:02

Yes, and you are increasing your chances of finding somebody likeminded by approaching the gay scene. Not all of them are 100% gay either.

QuintessenceOfFrankenShadow · 09/10/2008 13:03

Anyway, as you were ladies.
ciao

Jazzicatz · 09/10/2008 13:04

I agree quicky - I get rather annoyed that people actually think that some others may have a slighlty different approach to sex, they are going to be promiscuous or sexually aggressive. I am neither of these things but just think that sex is not always about a man and a woman having sex in a particular way!

quicky · 09/10/2008 13:07

Exactly - there are definately things that I like about both men and woman and having only every been with a man I suppose I don't know whether the things I like about a woman are just an appreciation or not (although I have to admit its a pretty big appreciation I have for the female form) - god I sound like a slut

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