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DH downloading internet on to this phone

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pamelat · 25/09/2008 13:33

Why would he do this? We have the internet here? Why would he pay to do this rather than just use our broadband? It cost him £20 last month for 10 downloads, is that a standard cost? or he is downloading something dodgy?

Strange times of the day though?

My immediate reaction (I feel sick) is to be suspicious.

I cant get hold of him so have emailed him at work (I know) to ask what its about.

I know he is going to be cross that I opened his mobile bill. I wish I hadn't but as a result of something on mumsnet, which we had a conversation about, I got suspicious because he was so "on side" with the bloke (who was in the wrong).

There is a bit of history. DH has used sex lines in the past. I know some people might be ok with that but i am not and we almost split up.

I mentioned this last week and he actually denied speaking to someone on the other end, although I know he did, he is trying to make me "remember" differently. He also said it was a "different life", it was only 3 years ago. Again, mumsnet topic made me think of it.

There was something else that I was worried about 18 months ago as our car was seen in a dodgy area but I believed him that he was just smoking. I think I still believe this, I just feel confused.

Sorry if this isnt making sense. I feel sick

If he is downloading dodgy videos then I cant be ok with that, he knows that.

Things havent been brilliant since DD arrived (8 months old) but last night we had a big talk about making an effort etc and I felt really positive. I just dont know why he would be downloading the internet on to his phone.

Am I just paranoid, he could be checking email or something????

He even did it at 5am on our holiday, he had gone a drive to try to get our DD back to sleep.

I shouldnt have looked at the bill, I know. I just wanted to look to check that he doesnt still call sex lines, because of how he reacted when I spoke about it.

It might be nothing????? He will now fall out with me for opening the bill anyway - I do open most bills but not the phone one.

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pamelat · 01/10/2008 20:36

Hi all

Am back (computer fixed). I now have tonsillitus, further punishment perhaps!!

I am sorry to all of you have contributed as if I have posted and then someones partner came online and read what people have put and effectively "told them off" I would be a bit put out.

Am mainly trying to just be ok with it. He has said that he will be honest with me from here on in, I can only try to believe that (can't stand the lying).

Trying to relax as think this has given me this crummy virus

DH keeps saying that life is too short and before we know it it will be over and we will have spent too much of it falling out.

Trying to look at the "bigger picture", mainly our DD.

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