I have been with my DH for eight years, with two young children. Sex life has never been fantastic but OK.
I have recently discovered that he has been surfing porn for years (even when I am in the house: would turn off the computer as I enter a room !).
He also admitted that he has SM tendencies, likes to be dominated by women, he never told me as he realised I was not into it.
Basically I am not into SM, I like strong men (not those that like to be dominated) and, basically, he has lied to me. I feel cheated upon and I strongly feel that I can no longer trust him.
He is a good dad and a good partner (companionship is pretty good), we have a great house, great kids, live in a great area ..; in summary the rest is fine. I do not love him anymore but I do not want to break up the family. I am very confused about what to do, any advise ?
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Husband surfing porn and lying about sexual tendencies
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