I might be being a tad over-sensitive so would be interested to know how you'd feel.
D told me last night that friends of his, that I know are getting married. Great news. He found out by email as they are now living in Australia, where she's from (he's British, they met here).
Olivia Newton John was on TV at the time which is what reminded D to tell me. He said the wife to be looks like ONW. I said she looks more like Natalie Umbrglia, (v pretty). D said 'Not a bad combination', I agreed. No problem so far.
Then he said 'Yeah I said to S, I wouldn't let someone like that go either'.
I didn't like that.
MAINLY because we're not married like the sensitive old bag I am, it felt like he was saying 'Anyone that lovely should be snapped up and married, and you're not quite lovely enough to warrant a marriage'!
Now I know that is me being sensitive, and I know what he was saying to his mate, and I know he's not saying your an old moose and you're not good enough to marry etc etc, I know all that.
BUT, I am still smarting a bit.
Something in that comment didn't sit well with me.
He said it last night and it's still nigglying away at me.
He knows it didn't sit well because my face is an open book, that and I left the room 2 minutes later saying 'think I'll leave you to clear up'.
Would that comment, if you weren't married, niggle at you a bit or shall I stop being so Goddamn sensitive and get over myself!?
If it would niggle you a bit, what would you say a day later, or wouldn't you?
Cheers, TC x