Dp being weird and guarding phone.

[shoot]

Dps being weird with me. I can't put my finger on it.

And he takes his phone everywhere with him. He didn't want to leave it in the room with me last night. I said it was charging and when he went out I checked it and all the msgs were deleted.

Now I'm not saying he's cheating.

But just want some clarity.

Mrsshapely, you've actually put your finger on something that's bothering me. I was always so proud that we trusted each other and that I'd never checked his phone and he'd never checked mine and we've always been honest, and now I feel all sneaky and horrible

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wallet or bank statement is where you can rest your worries.

it'll soon tell you if you need to keep being suspisous (sp?).

Really sorry but my dh was the same about his phone and all my suspicions have been confirmed. It's all true, and I feel awful for checking his phone - from being a happy, nice, sane person, I'm now sneaky, distrustful and a cheated-on idiot who might have any STD going... don't sneak around any more, ask up-front and if he can't give you proof he's genuine then you know he isn't. See my reply on thread "Quick question - what would you think...?"

I so hope we are all wrong shoot

He rushes home from work and showers?? [hmmm] I'd be concerned that was about more than smoking.

i feel for you my husband of nearly 19yrs started acting strange with his phone around xmas, in april after his lack of sex with me, and other things found a text from a 26yr old polish girl from his works, i trusted my gut feeling so strong, he denies all but more i found out,he wont talk about it and wont,do what you think you need to and be happy in yourself, it hurts but just see how things go.Will he talk to you about your fears ?, woman know more than men give us credit for.I am nearly forty and his 52 so its true they just cant resist temptation,it just depends if you feel that his crossed the line,like i knew.I wish you well and hope you sort things out .