well we were all right it has all kicked of again

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you're right he's having a mid-life crisis. She's right that he shouldn't be doing it around her and what she's had to put up with to date is atrocious.

I hope you can all help her work through this .. you sound as though you are doing everything right so far.

god your dh sounds fab

I will borrow him in times of crisi

Seems a rather drawn out mid life crisis if he's been having affairs for most of their marriage though.

Hope you manage to have a reasonable holiday in the circumstances.

I suppose everyone's trying to act normal for the sake of teh dc?

Your poor sis, poor parents (they sound poleaxed) - poor all of you. But she sounds like she's turned a corner, and will get stronger from here.

But am I reading this right - he's still thinking about joining you all on holiday? Even though he's back with OW?

How are her children taking it all - they must be fkn confused with all the toing and froing.

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I don't think it's a mid life crisis either, esp if he had one years ago. He's just an attention seeking shite. No offence.

Your sister so needs to join MN.

Cooking his phone- goog on er!

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Your poor sister .
Hope she mails his melted phone back to him!

I can't believe he's still planning on going on the holiday

Gosh, if anything like this ever happened to me (God forbid) I'd be so grateful to have people like you, your dh and your Mum on my team.

So very painful for your sister BUT in the long term she's far better off without bastard dick-for-brains in her life.

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Aw, sounds like just what she needs.

Her soon-to-be ex is barking. "Worried she doesn't love him" indeed!

lol@ "Worried she doesn't love him."

Ya think?

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Your poor sister
She really fought for her relationship all these years

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Oh God, no.
Your poor sister, thank God she has you to kick his droopy arse on side. Your mum sounds lovely.
I am very suspicious of the friend.

He's admitting and being all sad because he knows that will put the brakes on anyone screaming at him and punching him in the nose. I'm not a fan of detesticulation, but I lost m'bollocks for a lot less

He's not suffering a breakdown, he's just a sap. 'Oh woe is me, not enough people love meeeeeeeee' Twunt.

lol at middle class domestic abuse. How very Daily Mail of him. Just you watch, he'll be blaming Richard & Judy's sodding book club next.

'If it weren't for that beyatch Finnegan...'

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I'm so sorry your sister's going thro this Cod, buy her books loads of books. For what it's worth my mum did the cuddling and calling me her little baby too when I broke down after discovering what ex had done.

Ex never used to let me read either so I'm currently catching up on 11 years of reading, ex has (of whch he has never paid anyway) for the financial side of the divorce hearing, I spent about £100 on books the first month free of him in one go, I so know during the hearing they're going to ask me what I spent it on, I am so tempted to say the definitive guide to the karma sutra in english with colour illustrations....now that I have a chance to an orgasm I'm sorry thats crass isnt it.

It will get better, she is better off without him, and so lucky to have you who love her so much.

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