I have a very clear preference when it comes to giving oral sex. I’m only comfortable doing it in the 69 position where we’re both giving and receiving simultaneously. Outside of that, I personally find the act degrading.
My boyfriend doesn’t seem willing to accept this and keeps challenging why I feel that way. I’m not asking him to share my perspective or agree that the act itself is degrading. I appreciate that other women may enjoy it in different circumstances and that’s entirely their choice.
However, I believe I’m entitled to my own sexual boundaries without having to repeatedly defend or justify them. For me, the real issue is his apparent inability to accept that this is simply what I’m comfortable with rather than the oral sex itself.
AIBU to consider ending the relationship over this?