I know I’ll be told im stupid for this. I know I’ll get people saying dont send jt. But I think I’d regret not sending it. I need help with the wording
so there is a man at a place i regularly frequent. Hea attractive to me. We flirt. We go back and fourth and have done since may. A while ago we ended up in the passenger seat of my car all over each other.
all he does is talk sex with me over text but in person We can talk about life.
we kissed a few weeks ago in the car but he then started to almost lean to wanting more and touched himself, I stopped him and said look I think we need to stop I can’t do it.
We’d not really spoken since. The energy just genuinely shifted. I sat next to him yesterday as he was on his own. We talked a little. He asked what I was doing that evening and said maybe he could be a part of the plans. I said I was busy. He asked me what I was doing today. I said nothing. But youre not coming to mine and we’re not having sex. He then said i was turning him on so I just gave up and was like. This is pointless Ive not heard off him so of course he’s just shown himself as only wanting one thing.
because I frequent this place a lot. It’s awkward to me. I don’t want to talk about it because I know he’s got the control. But I just wanted to say something along the lines of “hey. I could see you didnt feel like speaking yesterday. Which is fine. I understand. but I really can’t engage in casual intimacy now or ever. I’m not what sort of woman and I know im partly to blame for flirting. But the circles aren’t conducive”
tbkughts