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Husband being sneaky

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SCLover84 · 23/10/2026 21:01

Would it bother you if you found out your husband had ordered a lesbian calendar? He's having it delivered to his mum's house (she's 75!). Just the other week I discovered he'd had three large photos of Megan Fox delivered to her house, I got him to show me when he got home, one was her dressed like a school girl which I find very distasteful. He was very sheepish and said sorry but now this...! I wouldn't be too bothered but it's the sneaky way he's doing it, he's had other photos of women in underwear sent to his mum's before. He's had three calendars this year and last year of women in underwear etc. It's the underhand way he's doing it I find hurtful, or am I making too much of this (I was brought up very strictly 🙄).

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ItsCloudyToday · 25/10/2026 06:32

But I don’t understand why he is sneaking around and ordering them secretly to a different address, and then just putting them up in the house anyway?

SCLover84 · 25/10/2026 06:51

ItsCloudyToday · 25/10/2026 06:32

But I don’t understand why he is sneaking around and ordering them secretly to a different address, and then just putting them up in the house anyway?

He hasn't put the photos up just the calendar.

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maras2 · 25/10/2026 06:57

'Girlie calendars' Have the clocks gone back to the 1950's?

maukingmecrazy · 25/10/2026 06:58

How old are you both? He only just got a phone and didn't tell you? This seems very dated in a way I can't explain.

Motnight · 25/10/2026 07:00

This all seems ..... unusual

Slippery · 25/10/2026 14:17

Who still uses a calendar?

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