AIBU- Text exchange with partner

[whiteumbrella]

By way of background, I’m 47, partner is 53. Ben together 4.5yrs, live apart. every time we see each other (once a fortnight, we are intimate multiple times including 2 weeks ago)
Currently worried about investigations for change in bowel habit and abdominal pain and job being on the line through no fault of my own, HR involved.
I Haven’t been responding to his daily/sometimes several times a day, frankly juvenile sex messages about how horny he is these part few weeks.
this is our last text exchange:
Him: U definitely lost your libido babe
Me: I know 🤷🏻‍♀️. Hopefully this pain resolved soon.
Him: What will I do with my unsexual, unhorny, dry middle aged babe 🥲🥲
Me: Find another sex toy i guess
Me: Dick
Him: Oh u spoilt little princess
Him: Bitch

i’ve blocked him which I know is a bit juvenile, but I can’t stand any communication with him right now. AIBU for ending a 4.5yr relationship by blocking and ghosting?

He is coming across as unsupportive,uncaring and thoroughly selfish.
It comes across as if your "relationship" is based on casual sex.sexual gratification and when this is lessened due to your health issues, he's nasty,uncaring and cruel.
You deserve better,
YANBU to block/ghost him he's vile...

He sounds awful

I ended it properly. Thank you all for being a sounding board 🤗

That was quick!!

2 years? So aged 12?

Good for you, @whiteumbrella ...he sounds horrible!

@Werhere - I don't understand your post...At what point did the OP say her daughter is 10 years old?

Well done for ending it.

Younger me woukd have entertained this nonsense for longer. Perimenopause me is like “I don’t have time for this s**t” 😂

Well done for getting rid, he isn't a man, he's a selfish twat. You deserve better. Hope you get better soon and your job is secure.

Well done for making your decision - I have my own thread in AIBU after my partner of 6 years said a horrible hurtful thing (again). It's a horrible feeling and I hope you are ok - look after yourself x

whats he been like for the last 4.5 years @whiteumbrella ?

Yes I’d be curious too.

Because behaviour like this surely hasn’t come out of the blue

That made me feel a bit sick , he’s 53 really ?

Anyone called me a bitch we’d be done - well done for ending it. I hope your tests all work out ok.

I hope he has to get his prostrate checked, gets a big finger up his back passage, comes home. Steps on a plug and then gets the shits.

Oh my god he sounds vile, please never unblock this idiot!

I would probably unblock and tell him that it's over and then wait for response and immediately block again.

@whiteumbrella Well done for ending it. I lost my libido 14 y ago. My dh is not happy but it is what it is. He loves me and wants to be with me even though I have said I understand if he wants to leave.