Every single day I have a conversation that runs something like this ‘I think we should look at that house I saw on rightmove the other day the one with the red door and nice front garden with the green car out the front because it’s probably going to sell quickly’ and he’ll reply like this ‘which house? Which one are you talking about?’ And I’ll say ‘it’s the only house we’ve seen on Rightmove for the last month don’t you remember it’ and he’ll say something like ‘we haven’t seen a house on Rightmove with a red door or a green car. Do you mean the one with the rose front door and the teal car out the front but that was on zoopla so no it can’t be that one’. Then he’ll do something like sip his coffee and look away.
shit conversation example but every single conversation I have with him runs like this, today I’ve just had to sit on the bed and sigh into my pillow as the conversation is more important than the above and I need a resolution and answer that affects our dc and he’s acting like a toddler that can’t understand me on anything I’m saying.
Feels like every conversation I have I have to explain everything in great detail or he doesn’t understand or unless I give the facts exactly the way he imagines them I cant possibly be speaking about anything he can recall except I can’t always guess how he’s imaging things.
im so tired of it all. We get nothing sorted because by the time ive finished explaining that it does in fact appear that the house he’s thinking of may actually be the very same house after all in spite of him believing it had a teal car not a blue one I’m too exhausted to sort out everything that needs to be sorted.
I’ve asked him to just run with what I say because then life would probably go smoother and tasks will get done more quickly but he still insists on these mini ‘actually’ moments. He also likes to explain things I already know a lot, simple things that pretty much everyone has to know I really feel like I can’t take it any more.