My boyfriend and me argue and he shouts. I’ve asked him not to because it always makes me cry. He sometimes laughs when I cry or if I mispronounce words (I can stammer when I’m anxious, but haven’t really done it since a child).
We were both arguing today, and I was getting really frustrated because he wasn’t listening. Basically I’ve booked flights abroad which he agreed with but is now saying he can’t go as it’ll be a home match for his football team. Ridiculous! I said I’ll go alone then, and that was the wrong answer… he said I was a self centred idiot and that I should be spending weekends and holidays with him. I’d lose £350 if we didn’t use the tickets
Anyway I said dont speak to me like that, he ran in front of me saying “answer the fucking question”. I asked him to get out of my face but he persisted. So I turned around and walked to the bathroom, I said please don’t follow me, leave me alone. He said I’ll fucking follow you. Got to the bathroom, locked the door and cried. He smacked the wall and threw something.
I feel afraid in my own house. His tempers horrendous.