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Yuk!

66 replies

TDR35 · 29/04/2026 07:18

Ugh! Dp buying more lads mags and having them sent to his mum's house so I don't discover them like I did 18 months ago.

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HotChocolateBubbleBath · 30/04/2026 02:56

My friends husband used to have a stack of playboy magazines in the bathroom. I sent her a copy of playgirl from the states. He was furious. She thought it was funny, I thought it was grim. I love that women won’t put up with this sort of shit any more.

A girl I used to work with won “High Street Honey” in FHM, it massively changed her life.

Alwaysthesameoldstory · 30/04/2026 02:59

Lads mags and porn dvds?

Well at least you know what type of man he is: one who sees women as sex objects to be bought for men's gratification.

What on earth kind of place does he work in that still allows nude calendars of women to be displayed?

Why are you still in a relationship with a man like this OP?

exhaustDAD · 30/04/2026 06:48

I don't know what surprised me more - the fact that you can still buy 'lads' mags' in 2026, or the fact that he would use his mother as a front. One is just hard to believe, the other is just plain wrong. Can you be ok with this, and stay together knowing this is going on? I would be surprised if you could...

Pocahontasandme · 30/04/2026 08:54

HotChocolateBubbleBath · 30/04/2026 02:56

My friends husband used to have a stack of playboy magazines in the bathroom. I sent her a copy of playgirl from the states. He was furious. She thought it was funny, I thought it was grim. I love that women won’t put up with this sort of shit any more.

A girl I used to work with won “High Street Honey” in FHM, it massively changed her life.

How did it change her life to win High Street Honey?

Bonbon21 · 30/04/2026 09:17

Have you told his mother?
Cos I would....

HotChocolateBubbleBath · 30/04/2026 10:14

Pocahontasandme · 30/04/2026 08:54

How did it change her life to win High Street Honey?

She went from being an in entry level office job to travelling the world with modelling contracts. She’s now doing tv work and is married to a minor celebrity, some 20 odd years later.

MrThorpeHazell · 02/05/2026 15:56

My DW still has a recipe for cooking lamb shanks that she cut from a copy of FHM over 30 years ago

Not sure what your objection is OP? Many people collect vintage magazines and comics.

Tryanalogue · 02/05/2026 16:12

ThisJadeBear · 29/04/2026 07:29

God, how sad.
How old is he?
I can remember the heyday of those mags there were so many of them, Nuts, Zoo, FHM….
Cringe.

Cringe sounds like a good one.

I’m going to read it and go “Phoarr!”

WillieBanjo · 02/05/2026 17:11

Ill put my hard hat on here and admit I had a monthly subscription to FHM from 18 yrs old to when it finished in 2016 and still have mostly all of them in chronological order.

I was only thinking the other day watching my boys reading the weekly and whiz pop bang how much actual good information and aspiration I got from FHM as a Northern lasd in a rundown town.

Articles on fashion, travel, exercise and sports, recipes and sex and relationship advice. I wondered if their revival would actually combat the toxic manosphere that replaced it!!

Tryanalogue · 02/05/2026 17:56

I better check my statement, see if I got the subscription to “International Spanker” cancelled.

TDR35 · 10/05/2026 05:36

MrThorpeHazell · 02/05/2026 15:56

My DW still has a recipe for cooking lamb shanks that she cut from a copy of FHM over 30 years ago

Not sure what your objection is OP? Many people collect vintage magazines and comics.

Can you tell me exactly what these mags are about then? Maybe I've got the wrong end of the stick, after all they have naked women on the covers so I assumed they were just naked pics of women inside? I object to him, and any man, objectifying women which is exactly what this does.

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ThisJadeBear · 10/05/2026 06:53

TDR35 · 10/05/2026 05:36

Can you tell me exactly what these mags are about then? Maybe I've got the wrong end of the stick, after all they have naked women on the covers so I assumed they were just naked pics of women inside? I object to him, and any man, objectifying women which is exactly what this does.

GQ had class.
FHM was a middle ground - some women but also great articles.
Loaded was for ‘lads’ - think lots of Hollyoaks actresses in bikinis, beer, football.
Nuts and Zoo basically women not wearing much. Grim.

TDR35 · 10/05/2026 07:02

Oh surprise, surprise, the ones he's bought are Nuts and Zoo. Gross 🤮

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Needmorelego · 10/05/2026 08:48

TDR35 · 10/05/2026 07:02

Oh surprise, surprise, the ones he's bought are Nuts and Zoo. Gross 🤮

They aren't porn mags.
If I remember correctly despite the covers being women in underwear/bikinis the inside was silly articles, naff jokes and football.

Needmorelego · 10/05/2026 08:57

@TDR35 here is a screenshot of a typical contents page of Nuts (Zoo would have been very similar - despite being rivals the magazines were almost identical).
The car is probably the biggest picture 😁
Have you asked him why he is collecting the magazines?

Yuk!
cauliflowercheeseplease · 10/05/2026 10:06

Seriously? They are hardly hardcore porno mags. It’s mainly jokes, football banter and “lads” talk with a few boobs thrown on the page. He’s a male, not a Nun 🙄

SilverPink · 10/05/2026 10:29

Lads mags? Porn DVDs? Nudie calendars?

 ~ checks what year it is ~
bippyboppy · 10/05/2026 12:39

cauliflowercheeseplease · 10/05/2026 10:06

Seriously? They are hardly hardcore porno mags. It’s mainly jokes, football banter and “lads” talk with a few boobs thrown on the page. He’s a male, not a Nun 🙄

Came to say the same.
Some of the comments on here are laughable.
One comment said have you told his mum.
Some are beside themselves with disgust.
Its a mag for men, women buy mags nothing wrong about that.

bippyboppy · 10/05/2026 12:42

Bonbon21 · 30/04/2026 09:17

Have you told his mother?
Cos I would....

Good god this is said as a joke right.

Or do you run to your partners mummy to get him told off as a grown adult.

TDR35 · 10/05/2026 18:13

bippyboppy · 10/05/2026 12:39

Came to say the same.
Some of the comments on here are laughable.
One comment said have you told his mum.
Some are beside themselves with disgust.
Its a mag for men, women buy mags nothing wrong about that.

I didn't realise there were equivalent mags for women, silly me 🙄

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WincyWince · 10/05/2026 21:18

I don’t really see what’s wrong with him wanting to read/collect Yuk! Mag etc.

A bit unusual but meh

If it’s not even in my house, I wouldn’t care

TDR35 · 11/05/2026 01:04

WincyWince · 10/05/2026 21:18

I don’t really see what’s wrong with him wanting to read/collect Yuk! Mag etc.

A bit unusual but meh

If it’s not even in my house, I wouldn’t care

But they are in my house, he got about six several years ago so has them stashed away somewhere. He's got so much junk I wouldn't know where he's hidden them, somewhere close for a quick wank I suppose. What are the equivalent mags for women, are we not allowed to appreciate good looking men???

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Needmorelego · 11/05/2026 07:39

TDR35 · 10/05/2026 18:13

I didn't realise there were equivalent mags for women, silly me 🙄

Women's magazines have plenty of pictures of "hot" male celebrities wearing very little clothes and articles about sex.
Does Heat magazine still exist? Or Closer magazine?
They are (were?) essentially the female equivalent.

Needmorelego · 11/05/2026 07:43

@TDR35 you still seem to think these magazines he is collecting are some kind of porn magazines.
They weren't porn mags.
Actual porn mags can only be sold to over 18s and from the top shelf.
Zoo/Nuts could be sold by the checkout in supermarkets (next to the female equivalents like Heat magazine).

Imbusytodaysorry · 11/05/2026 07:51

@TDR35 why not just leave the creep?