Just after honest opinions / thoughts on the below situation please.
i have wanted to book a family holiday (with our 2 year old ) towards the end of the year for a few months now however my husband ( who is always the sensible one ) has said that we want to spend some money on house renovations / improvements this year so let’s hold off. Although initially I was disappointed I understood this and agreed. Anyway fast forward 2 months and there is the potential that his football team he supports may make it into a European final abroad and he expressed that he would like to go ! I was very upset when he mentioned this and felt like how can he spend money on this and not prioritise a family holiday. His argument was that the two are not comparable - a family holiday likely to be more expensive so how can I compare. He also said that we have a couple of short trips booked already, one with extended family and a weekend just the two of us but as I pointed out nothing just the three of us. I can completely understand that it may be a once in a lifetime opportunity for him however I can’t help but feel sad that he’s happy to think about booking a football trip but not commit now to a holiday with his wife and child. In my opinion he should either do both or not at all. Am I wrong/ 😑 overeating? I don’t want to cause a huge argument about it but want my husband to understand how I feel about the situation.