Bust up between mum and aunt - wwyd?

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My mum has had a massive bust up with her sister. Mum’s sister is also my godmother and she has made it clear she wants to maintain a relationship with me (visiting my children / birthday dinners etc)

I don’t know what to do. I know from my mum how awful her sister has been (bullying, bad mouthing my mum to other people - not nice at all) She has always been very nice to me but my gut is telling me to stand up for my mum and to not let my aunt / godmother continue a relationship with me.

I know my mum would really appreciate this. And even though my godmother has always been perfectly nice to me, I feel like she shouldn’t be able to treat my mum like that and carry on getting what she wants?
What would you do? I’d love some other opinions.

I agree.This isn't youe quarrel and you should stay on good terms with both ladies, and not risk escalating the. quarrel.

Stand up for your mother and try to help the two sisters patch up dfference if you can.

There are 3 sides to every story, your mums, your aunts and the actual truth which is somewhere in the middle I believe. You aunt may have a different perspective to what has happened, I would just stay out of it and tell your aunt you don’t want to be involved.

Why have you bothered to ask then? You have already made up your mind what you want to do.