DH and I arguing a lot lately, very little intimacy. We have DS 4, DD 1. Yesterday found out that a few years ago (before we had DD) he used services of a sex worker. Disappointing but maybe not surprising. I want to leave but worry about the impact on DC and can’t imagine how we could afford it. He says it’s because I reject intimacy and he senses my general disdain for him. I admit I can be cold to him but I’ve not felt well supported with managing FT job and kids and struggle to relax with him as he can be lovely sometimes, moody and angry other times. He’s unhappy with his career and our relatively poor financial situation but a good dad overall.