I'm a 42 year old woman who's been dating a 39 year old man who I met online for 9 weeks. In those 9 weeks we've had 2 dates a week. In the weeks that we've been dating we've only been out for food on 3 occasions. 2 occasions we were out going for a walk and he asked me if I wanted to go somewhere to get food because HE was hungry. I said yes to both times. Another occasion he said about us going out for food because he had seen a place online that does two for one meals. Once again I agreed to go to this place. Other than those 3 occasions all we ever do is cook at his place or mine in the evening then go to bed and have sex. If I ever suggest a place to go, he doesn't want to go out. They are not expensive places that I suggest either. The one time I suggested going to eat out for breakfast and he didn't want to go because he said it's cheaper to eat in. The week after was the time we went out for food because it was a two for one offer. The first date we had was just going for coffee then a long walk then he invited himself over to my place where we made out but didn't have sex. Although he didn't leave until 2am so I'm not sure if he was hoping to get sex and gave up at 2am and that's why he left. The next 3 dates after this we went for a walk, spent time at his place then I stayed over his place and slept in the same bed but without sex. Although we didn't have sex on these 3 dates but he did want me to give him a 'handjob'. On the 4th date I stayed over again which is when we started having sex. He seems to not want to spend money on dates, hence why we stay in. He has even admitted to being stingy. I know he's not stingy when it comes to himself because he's mentioned how he wants to buy himself a bike and he talks about spending money on other things and he's ordered items from the internet etc. I ask him what he's ordered and he tells me it's expensive shoes. So it seems he's only stingy when it comes to going out on dates with me. Just to point out, I always offer to pay for myself so if we did go out on dates he only ever has to pay for himself. He can be a bit critical of small little things like washing the dishes. The other day I was washing up in his house (because I offered) and he stood there and watched me. When I asked why he was watching, he replied "you're not rinsing the bubbles off right". On a few occasions he's said something but I haven't heard what he's said so I've said "say that again because I didn't catch what you said sorry". His reply has been "oh never mind". He seems to say it with a bit of attitude as well. He has criticised a few other things as well or the way I'm doing it, normally cooking. But funnily enough on the other hand he seems a nice guy. I've had an aunt who I was very close to die very recently and he appears quite understanding about it. Just before she died she was very poorly because she had cancer. Because of this he said "if you want time out of dating because of your aunt being ill, just say". At the time I told him I didn't want time out and that I want to carry on dating him. With this he appeared happy that I chose to carry on dating him. I'm not sure what to do. Do I carry on dating him because there is a nice part of him and it appears that he really likes me, or do I finish it with him because of him being stingy when it comes to dates and his attitude sometimes.