The dreaded feeling of being loose

[Curiousmee]

Hi all, F here 39. Had two kids one in 2011 one in 2020.

Just a question for baby mums out there. After two kids I’ve noticed i’m deffo not as tight still 4 years after my second child even after trying the usual keegles etc. No matter what I try it just won’t go back to how it used to be and even my partner agrees. (He is fully supportive I just asked him for his honest opinion)

Is this a common thing for all you other mums out there ? After baby number one I did feel it wasn’t as bad. But after number two it’s just a no go !!

lol just something from love honey 😝

I don’t think I’m as tight three kids later. My DH said he hasn’t noticed but I have, in a good way. Sex used to hurt to begin with if I wasn’t really turned on. Now I don’t have that problem, which is useful when you only have time for a quickie (which with three kids is what we can manage most the time!) so it actually worked out better for me. But definitely isn’t the same. If being looser isn’t an issue for your partner and doesn’t affect your pleasure then you just accept it as one of those things.

Sorry that was meant to say pelvic floor therapy.
Bits, as in body parts.

If your breasts and stomach are different, then why wouldn't your vagina and external genitals be different too?

Currently searching lovehoney to see what it could be 🤣

Multiple partners stretching organ = Bottomless Pit that only gets deeper. Major repairs surgery needed.

This is exactly what I was going to post.