The dreaded feeling of being loose

[Curiousmee]

Hi all, F here 39. Had two kids one in 2011 one in 2020.

Just a question for baby mums out there. After two kids I’ve noticed i’m deffo not as tight still 4 years after my second child even after trying the usual keegles etc. No matter what I try it just won’t go back to how it used to be and even my partner agrees. (He is fully supportive I just asked him for his honest opinion)

Is this a common thing for all you other mums out there ? After baby number one I did feel it wasn’t as bad. But after number two it’s just a no go !!

To tame it down, basically after baby number two I can take more than just him quite easy if you get my drift.

A lot of people on here seem determined to gaslight you into thinking that you’re imagining it. The OP knows if she’s got a slack Fanny for Christ’s sake!

I didn’t say slack. Just not as “tight” as it once was. But thank you yes it’s not something I’ve just imagined has happened for no reason lol

🤣 your user name is quite apt tbf

@Arregaithel and I did not mean with more than one man just so that’s clear 😂

was thinking veggies tbh @Curiousmee 🍆

oh god @Curiousmee just had a horrendous thought!

You're not some salacious bloke are you!!!

Your describing Urinary incontinence. It would be a good idea to do your kegals and if it continues, see your GP.

Haha no not veggies. Just products from LHoney shall we say. I will also say he is first person to do it with and we both love it.

Is your stomach and breasts etc different following pregnancy and birth?

The vagina is a muscle, for most women changes after pregnancy and giving birth.

I think you have a very unrealistic idea of what your bits should be like after 2 children.

Have you considered pelvic slope therapy? Possibly would help to put your mind at rest.

tmi fer me now but glad you still have good vibrations 😆

I had the same thought. Not salacious at all, more like misogynistic.

Wtf no !!!. Literally on my sofa whilst he is giving me a foot rub !!

Yes my stomach and breasts are definitely different now.

Can you elaborate on what you meant by

“ i think you have a very unrealistic idea of what your bits should be like after 2 children”

not heard of pelvic slope therapy?

What does “tmi fer me” mean lol ?

@Curiousmee "a foot rub !!" is that a euphemism!!

Why Misogynistic ?

Maybe he’s smaller 🙄

Haha no. I tried to add the pic to the message but it didn’t work 🙄

Smaller than what ?

Well I must say I’m quite surprised by the poll outcome so far 🤩

Both. So many creepy men use this site.

Deffo not a man lol.

I'm intrigued as to what else is in there along with the penis? Please do tell 🤣

Where in the world are you, OP?