Our baby is 9 months old now, and it’s been awful, constant disagreements, constant arguments, he demands I pay 50% of the bills so whilst looking after our son full time I’m always working full time, self employed running a business, and with that I’m not even making minimum wage and he’s earning triple my income, there’s a lot of messy stuff that has happened within that time also like infidelity that I chose to move on from and I do, that was my choice, but he constantly makes disrespectful comments, like when I’ve mentioned how much I’ve been struggling and would rather find a part time job so I can dedicate the time I have with my son to being fully present, he says well why can’t you find some evening work because what are we gonna do about childcare, bare in mind I’m the one who gets up all night long with him, has him till 5 o’clock everyday then he expects I go to work till god knows, I’m just so disappointed in myself, he used to be so considerate and loving and since finding out I was pregnant with our son has been nothing short or cruel and cold, and I feel trapped because I always end up just letting things go every single time. So I know I need to hold myself accountable for that point.