********Is he really that into me?*********

[FeelsSoRightYet]

Am a regular but have namechanged for this.
I met a guy less than two weeks ago, we've met each other and been intimate three times since then. The last time was Fri/Sat at a party. We spent all of Sat making very passionate music.

Thing is I've been badly hurt in the past and so in the last few years have played it very safe, dump them before they dump you or don't get serious. Anyway the thing is this man has knocked me sideways.

We have both said that we are a bit overwhelmed by the intensity of our feelings for each other so soon. It's his birthday today and after sending him a txt, I got a very short as in "Thanks, kisses I'm getting old"

I sent one back saying "If your old I'm prehistoric" Anyway thing is I've had no reply. I haven't verbally spoken to him since Sat. I feel like a load of bloody demons are sitting on my shoulder.

I want to ring him and chat and yet I don't want him to think I'm hounding him and yet I'm thinking if he's that into me, wouldn't he have wanted to speak to me by now?

I'm so annoyed with myself tbh because this is the behaviour of a teenager and I'm a grown woman fgs! Arghhhhhhhhhhhh please if someone could shed some objective light on this I'd be very greatful.

Ah bless you lou
Kerry, no I'm stickin with MamaFeckinMia for now at least. I may make an announcement in chat tomorrow. I'm really ling this name btw.

liking not ling. Anyhoo ciao for now.

i wouldnt say it unless it was true you know

ciao Wommy

I liked the old name better

Hope it works out with the man

(Disclamer - this is my random post on my way to bed)

I've learned the hard way to play it cool every single time.

Sure, have sex. Sure, hang out.

But I hold off on the whole intensity thing.

i have found that seeing bf lessoften than you might is persuading me to have a life myself too which is also all to the good for the day when i am back on my own as i am having to find interesting stuff to do myself

being more self reliant

i am fecked if i am going to seem so sad i never do anything unless it is together

but that is also brought on by the fact we live 100 miles apart so can only do weekends

anything to tell us....

hope you have stayed strong

You are all wise ladies - and I am sure you know what to do for the best, I met my DP 2 weeks after walking out on DH - he is 12 years younger than me, and it was just a bit of fun for both of us, but it just grew and we are still together 4 years on

Take it as it comes. x

good advice eve....

I will think of that when i am on my date in a few weeks - first one in 3 years- very scary stuff!!!

Sure you will have a great time, can't imagine going dating, you are so brave. Just be yourself and see what happens. x

mhamai did he get in topuch for a date or anything

Hi, sorry for not being around sooner my feckin charger for my laptop died, new one has set me back 107 euro grrrrrrrrrr. Anyhoo, oh yeah the update!

Well on the good advice of yourselves I didn't ring or txt much as I was tempted to. He called and he has been up to my place, although my son was away for the night.

I've since introduced him to ds, we spent a day out together last Saturday and everything went great!

He's coming u Saturday evening to cook a meal

Also good luck with your date chocolatespiders.

Bump for Kerry, Zippi and anyone else who wants to know. [grin[

Mhamai, very pleased it is going well for you. You know you deserve it. Good luck and maybe I will let you know when I come to Dublin .

Ah thanks abouteve. Yes please do let me know if/when you come to Dublin. I'll stand you a drink, not really a guinness girl myself but would stand you a vino/coffee and an auld chat.

Another one bites the dust.

Aww, what happened?

I've started another thread "I'm such a fool" and I feckin am! I don't know whether to be more angry at him or me!