********Is he really that into me?*********

[FeelsSoRightYet]

Am a regular but have namechanged for this.
I met a guy less than two weeks ago, we've met each other and been intimate three times since then. The last time was Fri/Sat at a party. We spent all of Sat making very passionate music.

Thing is I've been badly hurt in the past and so in the last few years have played it very safe, dump them before they dump you or don't get serious. Anyway the thing is this man has knocked me sideways.

We have both said that we are a bit overwhelmed by the intensity of our feelings for each other so soon. It's his birthday today and after sending him a txt, I got a very short as in "Thanks, kisses I'm getting old"

I sent one back saying "If your old I'm prehistoric" Anyway thing is I've had no reply. I haven't verbally spoken to him since Sat. I feel like a load of bloody demons are sitting on my shoulder.

I want to ring him and chat and yet I don't want him to think I'm hounding him and yet I'm thinking if he's that into me, wouldn't he have wanted to speak to me by now?

I'm so annoyed with myself tbh because this is the behaviour of a teenager and I'm a grown woman fgs! Arghhhhhhhhhhhh please if someone could shed some objective light on this I'd be very greatful.

i have that problem too

i think you need to take it slowly

clearly he knows ypou are keen

so leave it with him for a couple of days

and just dont smopther him

i have been seeing bf for a while we met in october and i am still angsting about communication

but he does stuff when im not there he likes his space which is fair enough

he is same age as ypur guy then

I'll do my best not to smopther him.
Anyways, better get my infatuated ass off to bed. Nite zippi and thanks. I'll keep you posted! I think play it cool is going to be my mantra for the next day or two.

Ah feck zippi, noooooooo you can't be still angsting at this stage! Only joking. I suppose I'm just finding it hard to believe that I may have finally found a potential keeper after all the toads.

This guy is a chef too, he cooked a meal for methe other night. I mean if your gazing like two eejits into each others eyes, it has to be more than just casual fuc*ing right?

Well tbh as he is an eyetie I would actually completely back off. Imo they can be very free with the compliments and that can bowl over an Irish girl who is used to the less than enthusiastic courting rituals of the Irish man who believes that he is too good for any woman because his mammy told him so.
seriously Mhammai, if it is for you it won't pass you, chill, he is the lucky one.

His name isn't Enrico is it?

Ah I know I scrub up ok. I'm just feeling a bit vulnerable? lonely? my dd 22 has gone of to live/work in Spain for the next six months. Anyway that's another matter. Ok, I won't phone and feck I'm fab so if he doesen't get that then he was full of it.

yes i am definitely still angsting

Ah no my Enrico's birthday is in July

Carmenre, I'm torn between wanting to at Enrico and (((((((( ))))))) you for your as always sage and on the nail advice. I have dated Italians before but believe it or not he seems different. Not flashy at all, very earthy iyswim. Very very passionate! Mama feckin mia!

Zippi, we will have to start an anti angst thread.

Kerry, your me auld mucker your too kind.

Carmenere is your partner really Italian?

i have had a few threads on my bf

main point being he is 20 years younger so i have confidence crises

Nope my dp is Sassanach foe he is from Surrey. But I had a short term lover, long term friend called Enrico who is a chef and lives in Dublin, sooooo, I was just wondering..... but it is not the same one and anyway my Italian chef is at least 40.

Ok, dd has just phoned me from Spain so I'm a very happy bunny.

I'm off to watch the last bit of CSI Vegas to drool over Warrick. Yummmmmmm!

Will keep you all psted, nite nite. Oh and thanks again.

You will have to change your user name to MamaFeckinMia now Please do it would be great

Zippi I'll bunt you along if you bunt me along if that's even a word but I think ykwim.

Have to sayjust before I go, I got such a shock/surprise when I turned up to the party, they were all in togas. Well they are Italian! but still. lol at the foe. Ok really going now nite nite.

You mean like this? Yeah, why the hell not! Nite nite.

That is brilliant G'night

ah mhamai, you are a foxy looking lady, you dont need to chase anyone that much, you have done as much as you need right now, leave it

if it isnt meant to be it isnt meant to be

there are men out there who would be glad to date you, it's just a case of finding them, chick

chin up x