Met DP 18 months ago on dating app after divorce. He said he'd bought his ex out and bought her a flat, he lived with the kids . When we first met we'd always meet in hotels because his ex stayed at his when looking after kids because her place was really small. But she had a full on bed behind the sofa with loads of clothes, make up in bathroom, bras drying on radiator etc. After a year I told him it seemed weird that she had so much stuff at his ,and that she needed to have kids at hers. He said I was being paranoid. When she was abroad i was at his house all the time. When she came back, he said i couldn't stay at his because his kids were suddenly weirded out by me staying there. Lately I looked on rightmove and her flat (he told me where she lives) was sold 6 months ago, not the 2 years he told me. Which was exactly when all her stuff disappeared from his house and he told me that was because he did what I asked and told her to move it. Recently I told him about the rightmove thing and he blew up, told me I was trying to make trouble and the rightmove thing was probably because she'd remortgaged. Does it matter anyway? There's other stuff too. I'm convinced she was living with him and he says that's crazy. I've decided not to say anything to him about it anymore because it just causes problems but I can't shake that gut feeling he lied to my face.