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Stray Pubes

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Thewitchishome · 26/11/2025 06:31

I cannot believe I'm asking for opinions on this....

Over the last few months I've found the odd lone pube in the bathroom sink. They're not mine. I suspect DP because he's the only one in the house with the ability to shed such bodily hairs!

It's only ever one, and it's happened about 5 times over the course of around 8 weeks.

Never in the history of over a decade have I found his pubes in the bathroom sink!

Why now?

Yes, I feel suspicious. Am I paranoid, much?

Our sex life is nonexistent but I'm not after advice about this.

OP posts:
DiscoBeat · 29/11/2025 09:19

God forbid a man should wash in the bathroom

BabyHairs · 29/11/2025 09:59

whattheysay · 29/11/2025 09:02

Yeah that does sound a little uptight, your dd uses the bath I presume, and a penis has been in that.
Its not feral to wash sperm off hands in the sink or wash a penis in the sink, a penis shouldn’t be so stinking dirty that it would contaminate the whole sink.
But that’s fine if you don’t like to do it because you’re grossed out by sperm and penises, however not everyone has the same feelings and there’s nothing actually wrong with it.

I do see your point. I have seen my little one scoop up dropped toothpaste from the sink and use it before I could do anything also.

I do think washing it in the sink is gross still, I have never had any reason to wash my vagina in the sink! I more think a penis should be clean enough to not require washing on the go, rather than too dirty to wash in the sink though, if that makes any sense at all.

I will make an effort to be less uptight and judgemental about penis hygiene going forward.

whattheysay · 30/11/2025 15:33

BabyHairs · 29/11/2025 09:59

I do see your point. I have seen my little one scoop up dropped toothpaste from the sink and use it before I could do anything also.

I do think washing it in the sink is gross still, I have never had any reason to wash my vagina in the sink! I more think a penis should be clean enough to not require washing on the go, rather than too dirty to wash in the sink though, if that makes any sense at all.

I will make an effort to be less uptight and judgemental about penis hygiene going forward.

I know what you mean, generally most men shouldn’t need to wash their willy other than in the shower , maybe they don’t but unless we are with them all the time we don’t know what men do in sinks.
It wouldn’t bother me but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t bother other people. I’ve never thought to ask ask dh if he washes his penis in the sink but I think I will now 😂

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