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Bit tmi but would this offend anyone else?

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MangoMangoMangoMango · 08/10/2025 14:02

Would this offend anyone else don't know if im being silly it's a sex one and a bit tmi so feel free to scroll past. When I met my partner he use to go down on me a lot I mean like all the time, he seemed to really love it and would always do it. Anyway as time went on he completely stopped, I didn't really read too much into it and thought maybe he just didn't want to do it anymore. I never mentioned anything about it as personally if someone doesn't want to do it I'm not going to pressure them so I just didn't mention it again. Anyway we split up then got back together and in that time he told me he slept with other people (I was fine with that as we split up quite a while so like almost a year didn't expect him not to although I didn't myself) anyway for some strange reason he decided to tell me one of the women didn't really want to sleep with him so he offered to go down on her then she did! I mean am I wrong to feel a bit off about this? Especially since he stopped doing it to me? Find it hard not to take it personally as I assumed he just didn't do it anymore but did it to someone else 🤔 would anyone else feel offended by this or not? Someone said maybe my “ph was off” once so it put him off but I shower every day and make sure I’m fresh but obviously it was personal as I assumed he just stopped doing it in general but no just with me.

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MangoMangoMangoMango · 10/10/2025 17:14

Gardenservant · 10/10/2025 17:12

Perhaps he stopped originally because he read that it increases the risk of cancer of the throat, neck and mouth.

Perhaps, but then that would also apply to someone you just met

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MangoMangoMangoMango · 10/10/2025 17:15

landlordhell · 10/10/2025 17:12

This. He shouldn’t be sharing that stuff with you. Ick!

Yes I think it was to make me jealous

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friendsDisUnited · 10/10/2025 17:30

I know it’s over used on here but seriously LTB.

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