Hi everybody!
So first of all, i want to make clear that I know this probably is not the right forum for my concern but I just HAVE to talk to somebody.
In the end of June 2025 I met this great guy. We started dating and by the end of July 2025 we were officially a couple.
In the beginning he was so sweet and charming. He constantly told me how happy he was with me, he would text back within minutes even when he was working, he would send me cute posts on Instagram and so on. I was very flattered by this behaviour and I took this as a good sign.
About 2 weeks ago his behaviour suddenly changed. He never texted me first, and when we met at his place he definitely cared more about the sex than about actually talking to me. He still gives me compliments but only about my appearence. He used to reply almost instantly, now it often takes him 15-16 hours to reply to a single text message. We only see each other 1-2 times a week and honestly I think he just wants to see me to have sex.
Look, I don't want to be this obsessive clingy girlfriend. I'm totally ok with spending time apart, and I don't need him to text me all day either. I would be totally okay with it if it takes him a while to respond but being left on read for 15-16 hours multiple times just isn't very nice.
It's not like he's busy- university starts in 2 weeks so he's not really doing anything right now. Also I know he's on his phone a lot usually.
I guess he is just not that into me after all, and I feel so stupid for thinking he genuinely liked me (which he told me multiple times) :(