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Should DH choose nanny hours is he's paying?

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Hoping1235 · 02/09/2025 08:21

We have a nanny come for 3 hours a day while I try and find work (returning to freelance work from maternity care). My partner and I have different preferences on when she should come. As he's paying should he be able to decide??

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FirstdatesFred · 02/09/2025 18:56

Do you have a nanny lined up? I'd be surprised if there was one who was happy to do half days and a mixture of mornings and afternoons, you're more likely to have more choice of people if it's whole days.

Hoping1235 · 02/09/2025 19:20

We actually have one that will do those hours luckily :) she seems quite flexible 🙏🙏🙏

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