I had a crush on a work acquaintance for about 18 months. We got along well and I I thought there was some chemistry between us but I didn’t and still don’t know if he’s single. I am but going through separation/divorce and was just going about my life working and looking after my kids without any hope or agenda of a relationship any time soon although I did hope I might meet someone in time.
I changed jobs and before I left, my crush wanted to talk to me, he did, but then he made no move to take my number and allowing me to walk out of his life. I don’t know whether he really isn’t bothered or if he’s just not very self confident and he bottled it. I wish I could just leave it at that but the problem is, I’ve since realised it’s not just the crush I thought it was and it turns out I’ve got these big feelings and now I can’t stop thinking about him. Would I feel better for sending an unsolicited message to him or will that just look weird and should I just leave him alone and try and get my head straight?