Is this normal for a first/second date/meet up?

[Mars2020]

I don't have much experience dating men. In my mid 20s, been on a few dates with a few guys but never been in a real relationship in my life.
Went out with this guy from work who's in his 30s. We were chilling in his car chatting, he leaned in to kiss me and I kissed him back. But not even 20 seconds into the kiss, he stuck his hand in my trousers into my knickers. I told him to stop and pushed his hand away. He then put his hands up my shirt and started feeling my breasts. I told him to stop again.
He stopped and we chatted before I got out of the car to go home. He leaned in to kiss me the second time and once again quickly stuck his hand under my shirt to touch my breast though I had told him the first time not to! I just feel gross and a bit violated. Is this normal or is it creepy and too over familiar towards a girl you don't know that well?

Gross, completely inappropriate and concerning behaviour. Please don’t see him again.

No not normal at all don't ever be alone with him again

No, not normal. Creepy weirdo. Don’t see him again.

Run for the hills.Totally inappropriate behaviour.

Please don't see him again

I wouldn't see him again, his behaviour stinks.

Thank you to everyone that's replied so far! I also need to mention that when I told him to get his hand out of my underwear during the first kiss, second thing he did was put his hand up my shirt right through my bra, and then when asked to stop doing that, he grabbed my hand and put it on his private part area over his trousers and I quickly pulled it away. At that point we stopped kissing and just chatted. Why is he trying to make things sexual so quickly?

Because he’s an immature sex pest with no self control, this is bordering on assault tbh.

I have never known a man to move things so quickly with me. But I need to disclose, I'm very inexperienced, still a virgin. Haven't done more than kiss a few guys so I was really taken aback by this and feel very icky

Well op, I’m definitely not a virgin and I would find that icky too. PP is right, it’s bordering on assault.

Odious entitled prick who is clearly quite comfortable to sexually assault a woman and probably even rape one. Never have anything to do with him again.

It doesn’t matter how much experience you’ve got or not got, this man does not respect boundaries and is a creep. Don’t see him again.

He just texted me a few minutes ago saying he can give me a lift to my hospital appointment on Wednesday, I don't drive and it would be a 60 mile round trip to where it is. He then said don't worry about paying me petrol money, but there's something else you can do for me instead. I'm feeling very uncomfortable and I'm going to block him after being so inappropriate a few days ago. We work together though so I will be running into him. I am just feeling like trash right now

No op, you aren’t trash. He is. You are not responsible in any way for his appalling behaviour.

🤢🤢 omg block him and get a taxi or public transport to your appointment

Blocking him is exactly the right thing to do.

Screenshot his correspondence to you… and if he brings things up at work make your HR aware.

Yes I will! I don't want to even think what sick favour he has in mind!

Thank you, glad it's not just me who feels like this due to my lack of experience

Grim.
Trust your instincts: if it feels wrong, it's wrong.
He is not a nice person.

That is very disrespectful behaviour and it all on him. I wouldn’t go out with him again. Far too fast. Well done for sticking to your boundaries..

Please don’t ever get in a car with him! This man assaulted you!

I would definitely screenshot & block. If you can bear to I would also tell someone in real life so that if this vile sex pest persists you can demonstrate if needed that you had discussed what happened at the time.

This is terrible behaviour. Never be alone with this creep!

Do not see him again and I suggest you work on your boundaries. Men will try to get what they want with minimal effort.

This is absolutely not right, OP.

Being sexually assaulted isn’t normal on any date

He’s a grubby little sex pest after an easy shag - block him

What an absolute creep! You are right to be upset and it's not because you're inexperienced. It's because he's a bloody sex pest 😡 screenshot his message and if he makes you uncomfortable at work, report him to HR. Hope you're ok lovely 💐