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Cocaine use

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ThatAquaRobin · 13/08/2025 09:25

Could a constant runny nose, mood swings and being short of cash mean someone has a coke habit? This guy has asthma and allergies too so I think I was trying to see the best rather than the worst explanation.
My ex BF is an ex raver..in the 1990s he would have done all the substances and is open about this. He's now 53.

I know the answer may or may not be yes but I guess I'm trying to get my head round whether I've made the right decision to end a relationship that I enjoyed immensely.. I was infatuated with him and thought I loved him. Sex was amazing.

What I do know as facts He drinks 70-80 units a week and uses recreational MDMA.
His ex told me he said " Let's go back to my house and do coke" on NYE.

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ThatAquaRobin · 14/08/2025 09:06

I know.
I think I have this fantasy where he messages me and says "Yes you were right all along I have addictions to alcohol and coke. And I'm going to get sober for you"
Ain't gonna happen.

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SavageTomato · 14/08/2025 10:48

Yes you were right that he was using coke regularly. Allergies alone do not produce that much runny nose. It would also explain the huge amount of drinking, coke allowed him to keep drinking way past normal levels. Lying about it is completely normal for a habitual user. They lie aaalll the time.

Sincerely, an ex coke user.

ThatAquaRobin · 14/08/2025 11:24

@SavageTomato
Thank you. Sincerely. Thankyou

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Sweatybettyinthisheat · 14/08/2025 14:06

He's a Peter Pan addict and loser and a drain on your resources. You can't "fix" him. 🚩🚩

LTB

ThatAquaRobin · 14/08/2025 14:32

@SavageTomato is being super skinny part of it too. He is very small. Seems to eat normally but stays up uber late

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Peaceisenough · 14/08/2025 14:34

Drugs are his love and you don’t even feature in his life. Sorry.

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