Long term partner. Father of children.
back story - over a month ago I received a message from some one on ticktok asking questions about the gym videos I had made. I was polite but non emotive in reply. Over the month I have had a few more “when’s the next video” etc mostly I didn’t reply
then they changed. They told me they knew me and we had had a past. Shared a kiss. They wanted to do it again. They suggested booking a local hotel etc. I replied saying not interested im going to block you, that I felt scared they knew where I lived but wouldn’t share who they were (plus I felt crazy I had no idea who I had apparently shared this amazing kiss with)
it felt all too wrong and odd I don’t have people messaging me like this ever. Then it dawned on me and my intuition took over. DP is WFH. I stood at the door of his office and watched the pattern of “typing” when he had his phone in his hand etc.
I wrote in the chat “turn round” and he did.
first he’s said he was bored - now he’s saying it’s insecurity.
wwyd?