My thread on consent in marriage has been taken down. Thanks for that.
Thanks to the posters who did believe what I said, who were able to bear with me during my disbelief and who were able to offer advice. I do appreciate it and would have said that more on the thread once I had calmed down a bit after people telling me my husband had been raping me which obviously isn't very nice to hear even though I knew something was "off".
But apparently it's more important to troll hunt than believe what a woman who has used mumsnet for 20 years has said and wants advice about. Well done. I'm now upset because it's dawned on me that my relationship is actually abusive and also that women and a forum I thought I could trust I can no longer trust.