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Songs to be strong

88 replies

PinkLady1979 · 07/08/2025 21:26

Have just walked away from a relationship that I needed to end, for my own well-being. My decision but I am determined to stick to it and I am going to need to keep very busy and strong. I know I am doing the right thing.

I am in real need of songs to give me strength. Ones that are of the “f*ck you” vibe or “your loss” theme. The ones I currently have on repeat are “Strong Enough” Cher, “Believe” Cher, “I will Survive” Gloria Gaynor.

I also need songs for me to have a good sob to as even though I am doing the right thing, I am so sad, I really loved him. So any break up songs to bawl to please too so I can get that out of my system and then move on. I have “who Knew” Pink and “it must have been love” Roxette and “out of reach” Gabrielle.

please give me inspiration.

Thanks 😢

OP posts:
Notoloasy · 07/08/2025 23:56

moveoverG · 07/08/2025 23:35

Somebody That I Used to Know by Gotye

I really dont think this song is good for a break up song. It's more of a preamble to reigniting a relationship. Vibes!

Notoloasy · 07/08/2025 23:57

We are never ever getting back together - Taylor Swift

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 07/08/2025 23:58

Handbagcuriosity · 07/08/2025 23:53

Heaven Help the New Girl - The Long Blondes
Fuck it - The Lovely Eggs
Rearview Mirror- Pearl Jam

Rearview Mirror- Pearl Jam

Excellent choice 👌

selfcheck · 08/08/2025 00:00

Do tell us which of these you tried and loved @PinkLady1979

Christina Aguillera - Fighter

Sia - Titanium

Mariah Carey - Breakdown & The Beautiful ones

Rihanna - Needed me & We found love

Britney - Stronger

gollyimholly · 08/08/2025 00:01

Fleetwood Mac.- Rumours
The entire album

LaMarschallin · 08/08/2025 00:02

Two from the Beautiful South:
If he was unfaithful: A Little Time
One to cry it out to: Sail this Ship Alone

Trying to stay upbeat and remind yourself you're worth it:
Perfect by Fairground Attraction

NeverTalksToStrangers2 · 08/08/2025 00:06

Odiebay · 07/08/2025 22:36

Angry strong songs

Part of me - Katy Perry
Ugly heart - g.r.l
Fighter - Christina aguilera
the smallest man who ever lived - Taylor swift
Survivor - destiny's child
F u - lily Allen

Somewhere in the middle
Your losing me - Taylor swift
Better man - Taylor swift
Lose you to love me - Selena gomez
He wasn't man enough - Toni Braxton
I don't need a man - pussycat dolls

For a cry
Loml - Taylor swift
I miss you, I'm sorry - Gracie Abrams
I wish I hated you - Ariana grande
Last kiss - Taylor swift
Happiness - Taylor swift

I was coming on here to recommend a load of Taylor. It's what she does best and better than everyone else.

See also;
How did it end? (cry)
All too well (plus the 10 min version) (cry)
We are never ever getting back together (strong)
I forgot that you existed (strong)
Red
So long London (kinda cry but the bridge kicks ass)
Down bad (mixture of crying and dancing)
Death by a thousand cuts (anger and crying)

She has loads more too. If you're not a swiftie op, it's a good time to become one.

LadyGAgain · 08/08/2025 00:07

Yes to the upper suggestion of YES by mcalmont and butler.

also, said it all by take that. Gary is a genius song writer and this song is his epitaph!

Sunshineandrainbows23 · 08/08/2025 00:14

Nina Simone Feeling Good

Eye of the Tiger from Rocky. Because you are a fighter. ;) 💪

You got this. Xxx

Internaut · 08/08/2025 00:55

These Boots are made for walking
Mein Herr from Cabaret. The version as danced by Helen Skelton in Strictly is a great "Fuck you" one.

Sunshineandrainbows23 · 08/08/2025 01:18

Shine. Take That.

StarlightLady · 08/08/2025 06:28

Songs:

”Girl on Fire” Alicia Keys (my personal anthem)

”Talkin’ About a Revolution” Tracy Chapman

”Sisters Are Doin’ It for Themselves” Eurythmics

Phoenix1Arisen · 08/08/2025 07:55

When I'm back on my feet Again by Michael Bolton.

Abhannmor · 08/08/2025 14:18

It's All Over Now Baby Blue Bob Dylan. Or Joan Baez. Basically you got lucky once , now fu.

It's Over Roy Orbison. Great wallow.
Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word , Elton John.
Funeral for a friend/ Love Lies Bleeding. Elton.

PinkLady1979 · 08/08/2025 20:02

Thank you for all your suggestions. Working my way through them ♥️

OP posts:
Climbinghigher · 08/08/2025 20:14

Look up spritely and lølø - both have perfect break up songs

Odiebay · 08/08/2025 20:19

NeverTalksToStrangers2 · 08/08/2025 00:06

I was coming on here to recommend a load of Taylor. It's what she does best and better than everyone else.

See also;
How did it end? (cry)
All too well (plus the 10 min version) (cry)
We are never ever getting back together (strong)
I forgot that you existed (strong)
Red
So long London (kinda cry but the bridge kicks ass)
Down bad (mixture of crying and dancing)
Death by a thousand cuts (anger and crying)

She has loads more too. If you're not a swiftie op, it's a good time to become one.

Yes yes and yes. Just make sure you are ready to really ugly cry to how did it end!

Like the swifties say.. you don't like Taylor until you need her.

ColdTofuSandwich · 08/08/2025 23:21

Robbie Williams - karma killer

chattyness · 08/08/2025 23:43

You're History by Shakespears Sister
I Never Loved You Anyway, by The Corrs
Enough is Enough by Donna Summer and Barbara Streisand

gobshite23 · 08/08/2025 23:48

Titanium always helps me when I’m in this mood

Crikeyalmighty · 08/08/2025 23:51

Prefab sprout -when love breaks down
beautiful south - a little time

Abhannmor · 09/08/2025 08:20

Oh I love Prefab Sprout . When Loves Breaks Down 💔

Blueuggboots · 09/08/2025 08:35

Lily Allen, fuck you is great.

PlaygroundSusie · 09/08/2025 09:10

"He's Just No Good For You" by Mental as Anything. (More of a cautionary tale of what not to do!).

Crikeyalmighty · 09/08/2025 10:51

@Abhannmor great lyrics too