I recently reconnected with a man I knew years ago. Both now single and we had a date. We never dated in the past was just some flirting and only really seen each other on occasion.
The first date we spent 6/7 hrs together. Catching up on what we had done with life but also just having a general chat and getting to know each other again
Our second date lasted 2 full days including an overnight (completely PG) but just chatting, there was some hand holding cuddling and kissing. The chemistry was there and I just felt so at ease with him. It felt like we had been doing it years instead of only a few days.
We’ve eaten together every night since and I feel at peace with him and he agrees. It’s only been a couple weeks, we’ve both cooked for each other and had meals out.
I can honestly see myself spending my life with him. I’m obviously trying to take things slowly but it’s just natural being with him there’s not expectations.
I know it’s quick but could this work long term? In the past it’s taken me weeks to be this comfortable around someone. I have never felt this connection before. I’m slightly older so don’t want to look like an idiot either