Soon to be ex has met someone

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We are in the process of separating. I am looking for a new place with me and my dc. The relationship has been bad for a long time, he’s not been really nice and I’ve dreamed of the moment I get to be free. So can someone please tell me why I am devastated he has now met someone. I cannot sleep, eat and filled with anxiety everyday. I honestly feel hurt heartbroken over his new relationship.

It’s very telling that so many men jump into another relationship quickly and women either need a lot of time alone to heal or want to stay single.
Who had the better experience..

Meeting someone is the last thing on my mind. To be honest, I’d rather not be the person who jumped into a relationship straight away. You just pray it won’t last with her. But I think it will. She sounds everything he’s ever wanted.