I’ve been dating a guy for the past 4 months and it was going really well. We saw each other quite a bit, got on brilliantly and he seemed very happy. He’s had depression in the past but said he was feeling really good.
anyway- a couple of weeks ago he just, disappeared. Didn’t read my messages, nothing. I was genuinely pretty worried but then he emerged to say he’d got heatstroke at work. Fair enough, I thought.
Since then, he’s barely texted. Was meant to be spending a weekend with me and just never bothered to show up/ text/ anything.
I know I’ve probably been ghosted but then there’s that part of me that is wondering if he’s ok. What on earth do I do? I’m not going to hang around to be treated this way again in the future but if he’s not well, I don’t want to not make sure he’s ok.