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RoseInBloome7 · 06/07/2025 13:20

Being told I'm going on holiday | Mumsnet . Orignial thread.

I didn't go!

However, I am expected to lie in a meeting with lawyers about something my son has done ( can't put details as too outing) as coercive control and my son's behaviour towards me is mentioned. I'm expected to lie as they both tell me I'm too over sensitive , it's just banter , I have mental health problems and it didn't happen .

It did.

Both of them are giving me the silent treatment. Whispering , laughing and chatting in different rooms.

I have to read through a document of the mentioned behaviour and inform them (son and H) I've read it , reflected on it and I'm going to deny it to lawyers so the statement can be changed in their favour . If not, my son's "life will be ruined"

I still live in the same house.

I've been asked 11 times in 3 hours if I've read it yet.

Thankfully they've gone out . The document , I've placed in a drawer as I can't face it.

I'm beyond mentally exhausted and don't know what to do.

Being told I'm going on holiday | Mumsnet

Ok, I appreciate that for a lot of people having a holiday is a luxury . Back story : Been with DH for 16 years, have 14 yr old DS . Red flags star...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5286771-being-told-im-going-on-holiday

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RoseInBloome7 · 09/07/2025 23:04

I haven’t managed to leave yet , been working and looking after dad .

For the lawyers meeting regarding my son, H has given me a script to read to say I’m depressed , say bizarre things as I’m grieving so everything I’ve said is due to my MH.

yes I’m an anxious mess but I know right from wrong and the message to my son is ‘ you can do anything to anyone and just blame it on their MH

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