I didnt mean to get drunk

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I had been offered beers at my local social club i didn't realise how many I'd had i hadn't eaten and that affected me apparently I slurred my words a bit but that was it I wasnt sick of throwing up or falling over dd was with her dad i was coherent this was a one off I normally only have 3 or 4 i handle it quiet well

So what's the issue? Your child was with her other parent, you weren't making a nuisance of yourself...?

Are you still drunk now?

Unless you drove home this sounds like a standard night out.

Who said you were slurring?

Did you press post too soon?

I’m guessing as you’re posting in Relationships that your dp has had a go at you for being drunk?

You say you were 'offered' them but then you started a thread yesterday saying you'd had 9 pints of beer, and didn't realise until you'd checked your bank account.

How many were you offered on top of the 9 pints and do you have an alcohol problem OP?

The most common date rape drug is alcohol. Were you safe, OP? Is your partner angry? What’s going on?

OP, I've looked at a few of your other posts which are nearly all semi-incoherent appeals for help in a crisis, and it's clear you are very vulnerable, and that you have, in the past, had MH problems and struggles with addiction. It doesn't sound as if you should be drinking, for your own sake.

Do you have RL support at the moment?

I agree. It doesn’t sound like you should be drinking and I hope you have RL support.

it would seem so

OP, I realise that getting out of control when drunk can lead to feelings of shame and even self loathing - many of us have been there.

You need to forgive yourself - it doesn't even sound like anything that terrible happened?

You also need to consider quitting alcohol if you don't want this to happen again. Like many people, I am much happier since I made that choice!

I do agree with the poster above who mentioned spiking - if you are fairly sure you only drank within your usual limits, yet became a lot more impaired than usual, is this a possibility?

I assume you're being told by someone yo uwree an embarassment? Behaved badly? etc. But without more info and more context it's impossible to judge. Overall, I'd say a grown woman getting a bit drun when she's not looking after children is no big deal at all. Driving would be a problem.

What’s the problem op? Sounds like a non-issue tbh.

Clearly too drunk for any punctuation

And!!!!!!!!!

Im not drunk

Ok...... and what?

So you drink some alcohol and got a bit drunk? What’s the issue and why is this in relationships??

Is there a point to this??

So?!

Ok, if you want any sort of advice you are going to have to be a little more forthcoming with information.

I mean you sound a bit drunk.

You're going to have to explain a bit more. You got drunk/drank more than you would and.....? Has your partner got annoyed?

My answer to this depends on your age, prior drinking experience and age of dd.

In your early 20's and haven't really drunk much before? Then you've made a common mistake and will learn from this, don't worry about it.

Older but have not long had dd and haven't realised yet that you often can't handle alcohol the same? That's OK, you've figured out that your safe limit has changed.

If you are over late 20's, have drunk multiple times before and dd is over a year old... you need to grow up. There is nothing as unattractive or irresponsible as a grown ass adult who cant drink responsibly.