A guy I like and have been talking to has been weird these last few weeks. It came on out of nowhere, and I messaged asking was he ok. Later that day we met up and I asked again, as he seemed off. When we were leaving he said he'd text me later and never did.
He then ignored me for a week. Fast forward, I reached out and he wasn't giving me any real reason as to why. Just a lot of meaningless sorry's, no real meaning behind his words.
I didn't reach out for a few days and got in touch and he was dry in his responses. I left it. Reached out again last Thursday and asked to see him (though I knew he was working, I figured we could have lunch as he usually has his break near where I work) (this is how we met), he said he "wouldn't be around "place of work" for 2 weeks, sorry" I replied and said I won't be reaching out again, and he can if he decides, but I'm not putting any more energy into it. He said "same here, still want to talk to you" I replied then come back when you want to and he said thank you.
I feel exhausted and drained from this because it has literally come out of nowhere. Before this we'd see each other all the time and text every day. He began to seem off then ignored me for a week and didn't tell me why, and then when I told him to "come back" he said thank you??? It's so bizarre. Next week it will be a month since this whole thing started and I feel if he doesn't reach out then he never will. I don't think I can again without feeling like more of a fool but I like him and would like an answer for why this is happening. I also fear he's found someone else