Hello, I need some advice please. I’m unsure if this is the right place to post.
For context , Im 36 and my husband is 51. We have a 14 year old together. Another child was always a sticking point between us and after I miscarried ten years ago, he said he didn’t want anymore.
We have had ups and downs as most relationships have. He would get really angry if I broached the subject of more kids. His reasons are his age.
I’ve just found out I’m pregnant and I am nervous about telling him. I don’t know how I feel myself. I’ve kind of come to terms with not having another over the years.
I have a large gap between me and my sister. So the large age gap between siblings isn’t the element that worries me.
I guess I’m asking for advice on how to navigate this decision/situation. Has anyone had a large age gap and found it ok? Or is going back to baby stage after so long too hard? I’m unsure how to tell him. Part of me wonders if it should be so hard to tell my own husband something like this.