So I texted my partner this morning and told him he completely ignored the fact I expected him to cut out bacardi for me after a three month split as he was a twat on it. He drinks most nights (whether that's a few Guinness or bacardi) and doesnt see the problem with that. He says he HAS cut back lately. We don't live together. He texted back saying we have had a great time going places the last few weeks and he has been very supportive of me and I should cut him some slack and appreciate him more. I said the days out were only what any partner would do and I pay my way also. I shouldnt have to feel grateful for that. Basically, he thinks he doesn't have an issue and I've nothing to complain about. I'm starting to wonder if i'm just looking for a reason to fall out with him or if I actually do have a valid point! I don't expect him to sit without a drink if we are out but. the point was that he said when we got back together he would stop drinking bacardi. That last two weeks. I need someone to see this clearly for me. Thank you.