Hi I'm a dad of a large family and thought that everything in my marriage was great until I found my wife texting another man.
She promised that it was just flirty banter and she never wanted anything else so I have tried to look past it and move on.
Problem is she has never texted me anything like she did with him ie she told him he was hot and stuff , we have been together a long time and never have I had a txt like that, I txt her and tell her all the time she is sexy and beautiful and the love of my life.
So my question from a female point of view is am I overthink this or am I not enough for her. She has told me she only wants me but this is stuck in my head , please help and any advice will really help, thanks