When i met my husband i knew he was undomesticated - more feral really, he had been to boarding school and waited on hand and foot by his mum, who no doubt felt guilty at sending him away (she also is a bit of a slave to hid dad too, who does bugger all - but thats a different rant...)Despite trying my hardest to reason with him and talk about why he doesnt bother to do anything around the house he is not getting any better.
He works long hours in london and has a commute, so the agreement is that i do all childcare and housework during the week, but it is shared 50:50 at weekends. Is it buggery. I asked him to get the washing out of the machine and hang it up, but he left it in the basket, hidden, so i discovered a stinky pile of mouldering clothes a few days later. I rewashed them and asked him to hang them up - he has hung them so crapply that they have started to smell again as they were all folded and didnt dry properly.
He leaves his toenail clippings on the floor despite the fact that DS will come along and eat them if i dont get there first. Wet towels and dirty clothes strewn everywhere. He doesnt even do the traditionally 'male'jobs like cutting the grass (im very allergic) and diy.
Its getting so that i am taking it personally - like he doesnt respect me and doesnt care that he is making more work for me and making our home a disgrace. Is the fact that he earns a decent amount of money and i am a SAHM enough to make me his house elf?? I get so angry with him i want to HIT him and run away with DS.AAAAAgggghhhhhhhh.